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mantastic86 asked:


I have always had a knack for attracting women. I just give off this charming vibe and women are drawn to me. I have probably been with 100 women and in my early 30’s. Its so easy for me to attract the opposite ***. I dont know how I do it. I just flirt like crazy and am interested in them. Then after one or two dates it fizzles. I usually end up having a one night stand or a one week romance and thats it. The girl grows bored of me.
Im a failure at relationships but a success at one night stands. I just dont know how to keep a girl interested. Im a great looking guy and nice body. I dress stylish. Always smell good. I own my own townhouse. I have a decent career in education. But i just cant seem to keep a girl. I have even asked a girl to date me and they said yes after 3 dates. Then a week later they dump me. I had one that lasted 4 months. Even she grew bored of me. I feel insecure. I am well built down below too. I am analyzing eveything to death to figure out why they are leaving me. Does my breath stink? No. I got to dentist. IM 6ft tall. I weigh 180 all muscle. I dress nice. I cant figure it out. Maybe i have low self esteem? If thats the case how could i be the best pick up artist. I want a relationship and commitment. I am not afraid of committment.
I can start the spark but i cant keep the flame burning. How do some guys do it? All I want is one serious relationship with a girl that last a lifetime. I want to get married someday and have kids. I dont be a bachelor like sam malone on Cheers. It gets lonely.
So wwhats the secret to keeping a girl interested? The negativ comments I have heard from women are: Im boring, im insecure, im jealous, i am emotional, and I am cheap. Yes im a cheapskate because dating is expensive. I am trying online dating….many one night stands and players on there.

Anyone have ideas on how to keep a girl interested in me? Thanks.

Greg asked:


I read this blog at craiglist.org.
It answers the question I hear so many girls asking.

“What Happened to All the Nice Guys?”

I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I’d take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven’t figured it out.

What happened to all the nice guys?

The answer is simple: you did.

See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He’d tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn’t feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were fucking treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were “just friends.” Besides, he totally wasn’t your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn’t know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren’t the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you’re single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and ****** bags, you wonder, “What happened to all the nice guys?”

Well, once again, you did.

You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive “just-a-” friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren’t really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you’re upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he’d have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an ******* than he ever wanted to be.

Fact is, now, he’s probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I’m sorry that it took the complete absence of “nice guys” in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that.

So, if you’re looking for a nice guy, here’s what you do:

1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ***.
3.) Take a look at what’s right in front of you and grab ahold of it.

I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don’t really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you.

If you were five years younger.

So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you’ve fucked yourself over. You’re getting older, after all. It’s time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn’t want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn’t fucking want you, now.

Sincerely,

A Recovering Nice Guy

Abond008 asked:


Hey guys,
I love girls who has style, I prefare them more than the ones who are ‘Revealing’ but I want to ask something and thank GOD many girls are stylish. My question is that many of you girls claim that Dressing well makes you confident and I ‘AGREE’ with that but let me illustrate my point.
As a guy if I go to the gym and start building muscles, the muscles doesn’t make me more ‘CONFIDENT’ it is the result of having big muscles such as ‘Getting more at attention from women’ and being intimidated by guy. There are many guys with muscles who are not confident so please illustrate to me in what sense does dressing up makes you more CONFIDENT? And if you don’t get attention by guys or by girls how do you still know that is working?

That been said ‘I admire GIRLS who take cares of the why they look’ (Of coarse not in exaggerated way’

Ryan asked:


I am a 23 year old law student. I would describe myself as a confident, stylish, smart nice guy. I seem to have a really hard time finding females that are mature and actually women instead of girls or girls who think its approriate to act like immature guys. Basically the vast majority of females I have encountered in the work and school environments are not what I would call women (classy, dignified, responsible, mature, feminine, etc…). Instead they seem to be focused purely on the moment and having fun aka hookups and going out and getting wasted.

Are there any mature women out there my age or should I just accept the fact I am too old for my age?
Big… I find treating women in such a fashion to be utter detestable. I would **** myself as a human being if I did such a thing.

Geoff C asked:


Ok here is the question. a little strange so i will tell the whole story.

My Brother is Raising his daughter (14yrs old) by himself. Well he called me panicked becuase he found out she is trimming her pubic hairs to be stylish. He found this out becuase she was using his beard trimmer and dropped it and broke it. when he asked her what she was using it for she told him.

His panick is that she is doing this at a boys request and that she is already sexually active. He was afraid to ask her. So women is this always the case or is it the case in most times?

I didn’t know what to say to him I dont know much about this kind of thing with how early girls even get hair there. Please only serious answers remember this is a minor you are answering about (before some perv gets any ideas) any help would be apreciated.
thanks a lot of good advice already. Just wanted to add he was forced into single parenting when his wife died last year. he does a good job and is always good with her but when something like this happens he feels lost. you all have given some good reasons for doing it besides sex, but i agree he must sit down and talk with her.
i am sure she was using his trimmer so she didnt have to talk to him about getting one for herself.

and for the idiot that said “Sounds ********* that he would be asking someone your age.” Im his brother why would it be weird he wanted advice.

and Zoldish Congrats you are no better than a Kiddy fiddler with your comment. Idiot

DSM Handyman asked:


A friend of mine works in a “gentleman’s club.” Actually, it features **** women dancing for tips.

Women seem to find him quite attractive, but he keeps telling me that he can’t get a date.He tells me that once women find out where he works, they will not date him. Why?

He is mid 30’s, never been married, smart, works out all the time, clean cut, no piercings, no tattoos, medium short hair, stylish dresser, funny, very smart, works full time and has some money. If you saw him on the street, you could easily think he is an executive.

His job has nothing to do with the dancers, he just happens to do what he does there. It isn’t like he is a pimp.

Whats the problem? Is there anything he can do to fix it, other than work at another place? The money is much better where he is and there are not that many “straight” jobs in his field.